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The author strives to describe the pathways of the most unconscious aspects of parental psychological functioning described in the psychoanalytical literature as enigmatic messages, transgenerational ghosts, or blind spots. The hypothesis of communication as an “opera of the encounter,” making the link between three levels of communication (text/music/staging) helps understand the disorganization and dissociation of these three levels as a pathway for unelaborated affective states. This hypothesis seems consistent with human etiology work and current neuroscience data. Unelaborated emotions that could not access a symbolization level through language nor be contained within a psychism cannot be the object of a communication but will be expelled from one psychism to another, and from one generation to another like a “hot potato” that no one wants to hold or maintain. Specific and detailed observations of a baby within his family, from his birth to the age of two, help sustain this hypothesis by demonstrating specific areas of discordance in the parental behavior, which can be linked to specificities in the baby’s character.