Child Resilience and “Liquid” Marital Bonds
Durif-Varembont
Child Resilience and “Liquid” Marital Bonds - 2007.
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The contemporary social bond is being jeopardized both in the public and private spheres: everyone can be cast out, easily replaced, and excluded. Economic liberalism reinforces the temporary aspect of relationships and makes their severance easier. Bonds are more and more fragile, precarious, and not solid, including the conjugal bond: they are replaced by temporary narcissistic contracts. The only strong bond is filiation. Inside the family, the child is either too invested on (king or tyrant) or disinvested, when s/he offers no satisfaction. How can the child as a subject resist to the liquidity of conjugal bonds?
Child Resilience and “Liquid” Marital Bonds - 2007.
73
The contemporary social bond is being jeopardized both in the public and private spheres: everyone can be cast out, easily replaced, and excluded. Economic liberalism reinforces the temporary aspect of relationships and makes their severance easier. Bonds are more and more fragile, precarious, and not solid, including the conjugal bond: they are replaced by temporary narcissistic contracts. The only strong bond is filiation. Inside the family, the child is either too invested on (king or tyrant) or disinvested, when s/he offers no satisfaction. How can the child as a subject resist to the liquidity of conjugal bonds?
Réseaux sociaux