The child does not make the family!
de Keyser, Anne
The child does not make the family! - 2022.
97
Attachment theory sometimes leads us to overlook the notion of loss, which is nevertheless inevitably linked to it. It is in the light of the boucle de l’ambiance (ambiance loop), developed in the model of the milieu humain (human environment) (Dessoy, 1988), that this article proposes to revisit these notions. How can their connection be conceived in a societal context that gives pride of place to horizontality? After a quick historical diversion on the genesis of the construction of the boucle de l’ambiance, we will highlight the societal mutations of our contemporary family communities. We will propose a form of modeling on the ways of experiencing attachment and loss, belonging, and differentiation within them. We will highlight different ways of positioning ourselves in the accompaniment of families, and we will pay particular attention to the guidelines that support therapeutic work in the construction of our interventions in order to avoid, as much as possible, reinforcing an attachment without loss.
The child does not make the family! - 2022.
97
Attachment theory sometimes leads us to overlook the notion of loss, which is nevertheless inevitably linked to it. It is in the light of the boucle de l’ambiance (ambiance loop), developed in the model of the milieu humain (human environment) (Dessoy, 1988), that this article proposes to revisit these notions. How can their connection be conceived in a societal context that gives pride of place to horizontality? After a quick historical diversion on the genesis of the construction of the boucle de l’ambiance, we will highlight the societal mutations of our contemporary family communities. We will propose a form of modeling on the ways of experiencing attachment and loss, belonging, and differentiation within them. We will highlight different ways of positioning ourselves in the accompaniment of families, and we will pay particular attention to the guidelines that support therapeutic work in the construction of our interventions in order to avoid, as much as possible, reinforcing an attachment without loss.
Réseaux sociaux